What is Confidence ? . I mean seriously what is it ?. Some kind of food that we can eat ? or is it something that we put it on our head ?.
Now Confidence is the key of success everybody knows that, but if you ask a person what is this Confidence thing and how do i get it ?. most of the people can’t answer that question or maybe they can but if you ask this question to 10 people you’ll get 10 different answer, because there is no specific describe what is Confidence.
I think today is a great day to help someone who really needs an answer rather than a tutorial on how to be Confidence or how to reach the true Confidence.
First thing you need to do in order to get Confidence is try to be yourself, what i mean is quit simple be yourself not somebody else. If you see Confident people than you’ll notice that they are different, even though they are all Confident but they are not same. Confident people do not copy someone else they follow they’re own rules and regulation. If you want to be Confident than this is where you should start.
Than what you can do is fake it. There is a old saying “Fake is Till You Make It” . There are lot’s of people who fake it at first than it became there reality. I know it is very difficult things to do when you feel like not to but this is the way to reach the true Confidence.
Another great way is to read social media status or read some quotes everyday. There are over 100 site where you will find amazing status/quotes to read and it helps a lot if you ask me. if your not familiar with quotes or status it is basically means someone is explaining something that tooks many years to find this. an example will be “Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. Norman Vincent Peal” .
You must remember the Important part of this Confidence Guideline. Confidence is about feel good about yourself. Maybe you don’t likw your face or maybe you don’t have enough money to attract woman. Let me tell you something it’s not about the money or good looking face that matters. What truly matter is you feel Confidence yourself, because money or beauty is temporarily. Money will come and go what’s the point of holding your true feelings for money ? see the result is always nothing. you should be Confident without these thing.
I almost forgot. You should step out from your comfort zone. Trust me Ive been there.
The comfort zone is a killing zone which will never let you grow.The moment you step out from you comfort zone The moment you will find yourself surrounding by amazing moment which will you never had if you stick to your comfort zone. What will i say is get out from the comfort zone it will never be easy so don’t expect like it will just happened in sometimes in your life time.
Now none of these word does not matter if you don’t take any action. you have to control your life in your own way. This post just for eye opener but it wont be if you do not take any action.
Again this is not an tutorial, it’s more like a lecture.